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Transition to College |
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Transition to College |
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Transition to College Our youngest child was diagnosed with a learning disability while in grammar school. Early on in his academic career, my wife and I decided to provide him with the support services necessary to be successful in a normal classroom environment. Based on his disability, accommodations were made to leverage his academic strengths and minimize his disability. Throughout high school, he received academic support from the resource room teacher and was provided with testing modification. The goal of this collaborative effort was to provide our son with every opportunity to succeed in high school, develop a strong foundation of academic skills and the ability to succeed in college. It was very important for us as parents to lead throughout this process. Our son needed to learn what steps he had to take and develop specific skills to be successful academically. It was equally as important not to make every decision for him or do his homework when the subject or assignment tested his learning disability. He needed to learn how to deal with his disability while in the classroom, in the school, on the athletic field and socially with students his own age. As his parents, we guided and helped. We also relied on his teachers and the professional staff of the school to create academic goals where his skills were tested and his knowledge evaluated. Our goal was to determine his academic capabilities and the level of success he was capable of achieving. We did not want his disability to prevent him from reaching his full academic potential. The transition from high school to college was not very easy for our son. Children with disabilities can become seriously challenged and very intimidated by a new school, teachers, students and the new academic environment. All of these issues need to be addressed once the college search process begins and until it is finished during his senior year. It is very important that the student identify the type of school and academic environment that makes sense based on his particular situation and fits his learning style. This means evaluating the size and location of the school, the academic philosophy of the school, the type of courses and potential majors that are offered, the type of students that are enrolled, understanding the type of student life that exists on the campus and the type of support services offered to students with disabilities. After all of these discussions and assessments, it is important that the college goals be set and established by the student. Parents need to guide the student based on their knowledge of his needs and input from his teachers and advisors. This, in itself, is not an easy process. My wife and I spent many hours discussing all the issues concerning our son's college decision and what made sense for him. In addition, this process was made even more complicated by all of the hype and attention high schools, students, and parents place on college acceptance during the senior year. The college decision-making process was difficult, but the transition period offered even bigger challenges. All the issues that are raised during the transition period can not be addressed. With all the planning and preparation, the best of plans may not go as scheduled and other considerations may impact the student during the transition period into college. The realities of life in college hit the student fast and furiously from the first day of classes. Demands are much greater and the educational environment is very different and much more difficult. The student starts his freshmen year at 200 MPH and he is on a roller coaster ride. New friendships and relationships have to be made with a roommate and life as it was known is now very different. Our son found all of these issues to be very challenging and his disability compounded his transition into college. During the first three months of his first year he suffered with severe homesickness. The anxiety created by being away from home prevented him from exploring and learning about the resources of the school because he was not thinking clearly. He was not able to develop friendships during this period and this has had long-term effects to his transition into college. In addition, an unexpected athletic injury further complicated his ability to socially adjust to college during his freshmen year. As parents, we spent many days and nights discussing what steps he needed to take to get integrated into the school. Without the support and help from the college's Academic Support Department, our son would never have been able to complete his first semester at college. As parents, you need to know exactly what type of services can be provided by the college or university to help your child during this difficult and challenging period. Knowing and understanding what your child's challenges are based on his or her disability is very important to ensure successful transition into college. It is not about making it easier or cutting corners for them, but giving them the opportunity to manage their disabilities and use their skills, talents and intelligence to be the best that they can be. Guiding your child through this process takes a lot of time and consideration. If the support services are in place and working, success will be earned through hard work, dedication and the belief that the right school was chosen by the student. Our son continues to struggle with his transition into college. Many factors have contributed to the challenges that he has had to face and they were impossible to predict or plan for during the transition from high school to college. |
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Transition to College |